bougie bruja gatherings
Sacred Gatherings for the Woman/Femme who craves more than the ordinary.
For the woman who craves more than the ordinary—who longs to explore herself as something sacred.
Bougie Bruja Gatherings are an invitation to awaken, unravel, and remember.
These spaces are for women and femmes ready to embody their sensuality, deepen in ritual, and reclaim the magic of self-exploration.
Let’s gather at the Bougie Bruja Clubhaus
The Bougie Bruja Clubhaus is more than a space—it’s an experience. Anchored within my home in Oakland, CA, the Bougie Bruja Clubhaus is an intimate sanctuary where ritual, embodied self-expression, and transformation unfold.
Designed with intention, this space invites you to slow down, soften, and reconnect—with your body, your truth, your relationships, and to find a like-hearted community.
This space was birthed from my own transformation—through divorce, grief, reinvention, alternative parenting, and a radical return to my body. It holds the echoes of my own becoming, the lessons of sensuality and somatics, the wisdom of healing in community.
And now, it exists for you.
Coven Circle
Intimate New Moon & Full Moon Gatherings
Ritual based and lunar aligned gatherings for spiritual connection and transformation.
Under the New and Full Moon, we gather—not to do more, but to be more present. To reset, reconnect, and return to ourselves. These circles are a space to exhale, release what no longer serves, and step into the next version of who you’re becoming.
Twice a month, we meet in ritual. Through breath, movement, deep reflection, and sacred witnessing, we remember what our bodies already know—that we are whole, worthy, and deeply powerful.
A night for you. A space to be held. A return to yourself.
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Gives everything to everyone else and is craving a space to simply receive.
Longs for deeper connection—both with herself and with other women who get it.
Wants to integrate self-care, embodiment, and reflection into her life in a real, sustainable way.
Feels a pull toward ritual but wants it to feel grounded, intentional, and applicable to her daily life.
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Each gathering is different—shaped by astrology of the moon, the women in the room, and what’s alive in the present moment—but at the core, you can expect:
Opening Ritual & Meditation – Set sacred space with cacao & guided breathwork
Discussion & Reflection – Exploring self-worship and what it means to embody devotion
Partnered Presence Exercise – Being witnessed in your radiance
Sensory Embodiment & Movement Ritual – Playing with the Muse and awakening sensual expression
Closing Ritual – Blessings, reflection, and integration
This is not a workshop. Not a performance.
This is a space to reset, reconnect, and remember yourself—just as the moon does, cycle after cycle.
Because the magic you crave isn’t outside of you. It’s already here. In your skin. In your breath. In the way your body hums when she feels safe, seen, and fully met.
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Head to Bougie Bruja Club Calendar page to get your ticket for a gathering.
Early commitment ticket is $33.
Standard tickets is $44.
Sacred Sensuality Playshops
Experiential embodiment workshops for radical self-love, pleasure, and self-liberation.
Your body is not just something you live in—it is a source of wisdom, pleasure, and power.
More than just a workshop, Sacred Sensuality PlayShops are immersive, embodied learning experiences designed to bring you home to your body. Here, you’ll rediscover your aliveness, explore the depths of your sensuality, and reclaim pleasure as your birthright—without shame or judgment.
We gather—not to learn, but to experience. Through breath, movement, self-intimacy practices, and deep embodiment, you’ll unlock the parts of you that have been waiting to be felt.
A space to explore. A place to be held. A return to the sensual, sovereign you.
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Feels disconnected from her body and pleasure.
Longs for deeper intimacy—with herself, her desires, and her relationships.
Craves a safe, judgment-free community of women & femmes on the same journey.
Is ready to reclaim sensuality as her birthright and embody her power.
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Each Sacred Sensuality Playshop is unique—shaped by the theme of exploration, the energy of the women in the room, and what’s alive in the present moment. But at the core, you can expect:
Experiential, not instructional—you won’t just learn about embodiment, you’ll feel it.
A structured yet drop-in-friendly journey—moving from self-love and healing to pleasure and power.
A deeply safe space—no performance, no expectations, just exploration.
Embodiment tools & sensual practices—breath, sound, movement, pleasure mapping, and more.
A community of women & femmes—because you are not meant to do this alone.
Sensuality is a practice of deep presence.
This is the space where you finally get to embody it.
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Head to Bougie Bruja Club Calendar page to get your ticket for a gathering.
Early commitment ticket is $44.
Standard tickets is $55.
Coven Circle: New Moon in Aries Ritual for Women & Femmes
The New Moon is a portal—a threshold between what was and what could be. A reset button. A quiet, fertile space where everything slows down so you can hear yourself again.
The New Moon in Aries is a portal of raw, unapologetic creation—a firestarter for new beginnings, untamed desires, and bold self-expression. Aries, the first sign of the zodiac, calls us into action, reminding us that our deepest desires are meant to be pursued, not silenced.
Together, we will explore:
🔥 The connection between desire, pleasure, and personal power
🔥 How to release hesitation and move boldly toward what sets your body ablaze
🔥 The ways in which sensuality can be a form of self-liberation
What You'll Experience
Each gathering is different—shaped by astrology of the moon, the women in the room, and what’s alive in the present moment—but at the core, you can expect:
🕯 Opening Ritual
💬 Discussion & Emergent Dialogue
💃 Sensory Embodiment & Movement Practice
🔮 Closing Reflection and Integration
This is not a workshop. Not a performance.
This is a space to reset, reconnect, and remember yourself—just as the moon does, cycle after cycle.
Because the magic you crave isn’t outside of you. It’s already here. In your skin. In your breath. In the way your body hums when she feels safe, seen, and fully met.
Coven Circle: Full Moon in Virgo Ritual for Women & Femmes
The Full Moon is a culmination—a moment of clarity, illumination, and release. It is the apex of the lunar cycle, when everything is fully seen, emotions rise to the surface, and the body craves deep integration. Under the glow of the Full Moon, we witness ourselves more clearly, shedding what no longer serves and stepping into greater alignment with our desires.
The Full Moon in Virgo invites us into sacred self-healing, purification, and the reclamation of pleasure as a tool for renewal. Virgo, the sign of refinement and devotion, teaches us that tending to our bodies is an act of reverence—pleasure is not indulgent; it is medicine.
Through movement, ritual, and embodied practice, we’ll explore:
✨ What it means to cleanse—not just physically, but energetically and emotionally
✨ How pleasure can be a powerful force for healing and self-restoration
✨ The balance between discipline and surrender in devotion to the body
What You'll Experience
Each gathering is different—shaped by astrology of the moon, the women in the room, and what’s alive in the present moment—but at the core, you can expect:
🕯 Opening Ritual
💬 Discussion & Emergent Dialogue
💃 Sensory Embodiment & Movement Practice
🔮 Closing Reflection and Integration
This is not a workshop. Not a performance.
This is a space to reset, reconnect, and remember yourself—just as the moon does, cycle after cycle.
Because the magic you crave isn’t outside of you. It’s already here. In your skin. In your breath. In the way your body hums when she feels safe, seen, and fully met.
Sacred Sensuality Playshop: The Art of Embodied Self-Love
Some experiences awaken you. This is one of them.
Your heart is more than an organ—it’s the energetic center of love, pleasure, and connection. But for many of us, this space has been guarded, shut down, or forgotten.
Sacred Sensuality PlayShops are immersive, body-based experiences designed to help you reconnect with your sensuality, explore self-love as an embodied practice, and reclaim pleasure as your birthright. Each session is a space to drop into your body, feel more deeply, and experience true liberation through sensual exploration.
In this Sacred Sensuality PlayShop, you’ll be guided through Radical Self Love & Heart Awakening practices, designed to help you:
Unlock deep self-love through breath, sound, and movement.
Rewire your nervous system to receive love instead of self-judgment.
Release tension and stagnation in the heart and chest.
Experience breast massage as a sacred practice of pleasure, self-care, and feminine healing.
What You’ll Experience:
🕯 Opening Ritual – A grounding practice to set intentions and drop into the body.
🪩 Experiential, not instructional—you won’t just learn about embodiment, you’ll feel it.
💃 Sensory Embodiment & Movement Practice – Breath, movement, and self-intimacy exercises to deepen your connection with your body.
🔮 Closing Reflection & Integration – A sacred space to process, share insights, and seal the experience.
✨ A deeply safe space—no performance, no expectations, just exploration.
🫂 A community of women & femmes—because this journey isn’t meant to be done alone.
Your body is waiting for you to listen. Are you ready to come home to yourself?
Coven Circle: A New Moon in Pisces Ritual for Women & Femmes
The New Moon is a portal—a threshold between what was and what could be. A reset button. A quiet, fertile space where everything slows down so you can hear yourself again.
The New Moon in Pisces invites us into Sensual Surrender & The Sacred Lover Archetype—a time to let go of overthinking, soften into the wisdom of the body, and explore what it means to be your own most devoted lover. This is a moment to step away from the noise, drop into presence, and move with intention toward deeper self-love, pleasure, and embodiment.
What You'll Experience
Each gathering is different—shaped by astrology of the moon, the women in the room, and what’s alive in the present moment—but at the core, you can expect:
🕯 Opening Ritual
💬 Discussion & Emergent Dialogue
💃 Sensory Embodiment & Movement Practice
🔮 Closing Reflection and Integration
This is not a workshop. Not a performance.
This is a space to reset, reconnect, and remember yourself—just as the moon does, cycle after cycle.
Because the magic you crave isn’t outside of you. It’s already here. In your skin. In your breath. In the way your body hums when she feels safe, seen, and fully met.
Frequently Asked Questions
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Not at all. These gatherings are designed to meet you where you are—whether you’re new or deep in your journey. You only need curiosity and a willingness to step into the experience.
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Come as you are, but wear something you can move in and that makes you feel at home in your body—flowy, cozy, sensual, or sacred, whatever that means to you.
You may also want to bring a journal, a small object for the altar (if you feel called), and an open heart.
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Absolutely. What happens in the Bougie Bruja Clubhaus stays in the Clubhaus. This is a deeply held, private space where you are free to express, explore, and be witnessed without judgment.
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All events are hosted through Luma—you can RSVP directly through the links in each event listing. Spaces are limited to keep the experience intimate, so be sure to claim your spot early.